The Church of England have a website now with some tips some make interesting reading. Under the section
Capture the romance
Even if your Vicar doesn’t actually say “you may now kiss the bride”, you’re still allowed to! It’s natural to want to mingle with guests a lot of the time, but if you stay close to each other, there are more opportunities to capture the romantic moments on camera.

They have included some tips for your wedding photos interestingly
Also, during your photographs after the ceremony, try not to look straight at the camera the whole time. After a few ‘safe’ portraits, turn to each other, whisper in each other’s ears, sit on his lap, smile at each other. Don’t be afraid to embrace or touch one another. If you can’t look romantic in public today, when can you?

There are also some tips for your bridesmaids
Bridesmaids especially can concentrate so hard on walking that they forget to look up and smile. Walk slowly.

To read all these wedding tips and ideas go to the link here …. you might want to print this out also , so when your priest says there is no photography in the church, show him what the official website is saying.
http://www.yourchurchwedding.org/your-wedding/photography-and-dvds-top-tips.aspx